When preparing for a house sit, one detail that often gets overlooked is bedding and linen. Should house sitters bring their own, or rely on what the homeowner provides? There’s no single right answer, but understanding the pros and cons of each option will help you decide — and, more importantly, make sure expectations are clear between sitter and homeowner.
Using The Homeowner’s Bedding
Advantages:
No Extra Luggage: You don’t need to transport bulky items like sheets, blankets, or towels
Perfect Fit: The linen will match the bed sizes in the home
Hospitality Factor: Many homeowners prefer to provide clean, fresh bedding as part of welcoming a sitter
Disadvantages
Wear And Tear: Some homeowners may be protective of their best sheets and towels
Laundry Requirements: Sitters are usually expected to wash and return everything in good condition before leaving
Comfort Levels: If you have sensitive skin or strong preferences, unfamiliar bedding may not suit you
Bringing Your Own Bedding
Advantages
Personal Comfort: You know the quality, feel, and cleanliness of your own bedding
Respect For The Homeowner’s Linen: Your own items won’t add wear and tear to their supplies
Time Saver: You won’t need to do a last-minute wash before departure
Disadvantages
Transport Issues: Bedding can be bulky, and not always practical if you’re flying or using public transport
Size Mismatch: Without checking, your sheets may not fit the homeowner’s bed
Unnecessary Duplication: If the homeowner expects to provide linen, bringing your own might be redundant
Best Practice
The most important step is to clarify arrangements before the sit begins. Here are some practical tips:
Ask Directly: Does the homeowner want to provide bedding, or would they prefer you bring your own?
Confirm Laundry Expectations: If using their linen, should it be washed, dried, and remade before you leave?
Consider Logistics: If you’re driving, bringing your own can be easy. If you’re flying, it’s likely to be a pain
Be Adaptable: Some sits may call for one approach, and others the opposite
Bottom Line
Whether you bring your own bedding or use the homeowner’s, the key is clear communication. Sorting it out early avoids awkwardness later and ensures both sitter and homeowner are comfortable with the arrangement.
2 Comments
Gemma the Sitter
October 17 2025 at 1:43 PMI prefer using my own towels for hygiene reasons, but I don’t mind using whatever sheets are supplied.
Barbara Aprea
October 6 2025 at 2:25 PMAs a homeowner, I always provide fresh linen for sitters. To me it feels like hosting a guest, and I like knowing the beds are made up properly.